A lei can be a symbol of welcome or farewell, of respect, love, sympathy, regret and celebration. It's traditionally given in Pacific Islander communities, often as a gesture of hospitality or to honor someone. The purpose of giving a lei can be described as:

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1. A Welcoming Gesture: Offering a lei is a way to make someone feel special and at home. It signifies warmth and hospitality, especially when someone arrives at an important event or celebration.

2. Expression of Love and Affection: A lei is often given to loved ones to show appreciation, affection, or to mark significant occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, or graduations.

3. Symbol of Celebration: Leis are given at events to mark milestones or achievements. They represent joy and honor the recipient's accomplishments like weddings, baby showers, the purchase of a new home or the announcement of starting a business.

4. Respect and Reverence: Giving a lei is a way to show respect for someone’s presence or significance, as in ceremonial events or to honor elders and guests. Adorning the chest of a loved one during a funeral, a blessing, or the birth of a baby.

5. Cultural Tradition: In Polynesian culture, a lei is a reflection of the giver and the receiver's spirit, which often encompasses kindness, compassion, and mutual respect.

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A lei is not just a beautiful piece of art made from flowers or leaves—it carries with it sentiments of goodwill, making the act of giving one deeply meaningful and personal expressing a desire to create lasting, positive connections.

 

It’s a thoughtful and beautiful gesture that can speak volumes without needing many words.